Meet Jessica
The Original Complicated Blonde
Jessica is an influencer, event planner, author, and speaker. She offers real talk about relationships and inspires others to live a life you love.
Born and raised in the Northwest, Jessica is an event planner, dog mom, sister, daughter, auntie, friend, boss, employee, leader, and Make a Wish volunteer. Up until last year, she was also called wife. Since the divorce, she is committed to offering real talk and advice about all things love, life, and relationships. After starting over in her 30s, she learned that healing and loving yourself is a prerequisite to all relationships. Jessica offers guidance, leadership, and a friendly voice while inspiring others to love yourself and to enjoy your life regardless of what your relationship status may be.
Jessica started The Complicated Blonde to inspire others to take back their power in an otherwise seemingly powerless situation. While she hates the term “finding yourself”, Jessica encourages others to learn who they are and what they want. She believes wholeheartedly in self-care, alone time, and loving yourself while you learn to love others and create healthy relationships.
Change is always hard but it is ultimately unavoidable. That’s just what life is about. Losing your love and your future can be devastating, but you can heal yourself from the past and set yourself free to embrace the future.
When life goes from safe to scary, starting over can be daunting and navigating grief can be an incredibly lonely journey. But you don’t have to do it alone! Sometimes all you need is a friend who’s been through it all. Jessica is that friend. You have found the place to share your story of divorce, heartbreak, failure, life, relationships, dating, and family. Plus all the other fun, awesome, and complicated things life has to offer. When you learn to be who you are and make yourself happy you can then offer more to your relationships as you come in full, to begin with rather than looking for someone else to fill you and make you happy. It all starts with you!! Happiness begins as an inside job.
Jessica and The Complicated Blonde strive to give a voice, real and honest about what really happens during life’s most transforming, and sometimes, hardest moments. Now, her main goal is to offer real talk about life and love without being censored. So don’t be surprised if you see a 4 letter word and stories about the crazy place, the place we all spiral too but hate to talk about. Jessica and The Complicated Blonde strives to share stories as transparently as possible.
Wherever you are in your complicated life, single, separating, divorced, dating, or married you have found the right place!
Forming and cultivating relationships with one another is what life is about. The reality of relationships and life is that some last while others end. To love and be loved is what makes us human and it’s one of the best things we do. Eliminate the need to find a relationship to find your worth. Jessica encourages everyone to find their own worth, inside or outside of a relationship.
Relationships are complicated. Life is complicated. It’s messy, crazy, and beautiful all at the same time. It is DEFINITELY too short to be unhappy. So enjoy it! Life is wonderful, and you are perfect regardless of relationship status.
